Quote from: lonewolff on September 28, 2014, 01:06:23 AM
No way was I pointing the finger at Robert (or anyone in particular, for that matter). Just an every day style example or what I was trying to get at.
Exactly same situation as you, I was not pointing at nobody in particular and yet get lashed at ... This happens a lot on forums lonewolff.
and I think more and more as this topic advances proves the OP's point further and why some restructuring and moderation might not be a bad thing.
Every community be it from a open sourced project, free project, hobby or whatever, should have some rules, for everybody's best interest.
When I joined here there was hostility,
flaming, 1 or 2 users insulting and flaming / breaking down every post people made, it was NOT attractive or welcoming in my opinion.
but I decided to stay because I liked the program. But I'm sure a lot of people would not. I don't know why some people feel targeted, when it is clear we are talking in the general sense about things that are not tolerated normally on ANY forum/community.
If one adopts the anything goes anything can be said attitude, that only opens doors to situations like these and some observed in the past.
Nobody said anything about firing or banning anybody nobody was pointing a finger at Robert, or anybody. Lonewolff, I guess moderation or not, you have to be very careful voicing your opinions around here. (or anywhere)
Some forums are obviously over moderated and ban people on ridiculous things (you just proved a good example there with the avatar thing
) does not mean this place has to be like that...Friendly community ay ? lol ! But it is a learning experience because eventually you learn that you should avoid certain topics and stick to the official forums ....
You will always clash with people on a forum no matter what.
That said, anybody who joins here and points a finger at any user in particular, or notices the negativity, then do this........since it is easy to judge the bad first and good last.....do a search on that particular user, all his posts and see how much this user has contributed positive and constructive topics/posts vs. the nonconstructive ones. Freedom goes a long way, but if it were up to me running this place, open source or not hobby or not, I would not allow racism, homophobia, personal attacks, excessive flaming, and ANYTHING that creates a hostile environment.
As to Robert it is clear that he has contributed more good to this project than anything else, and we all derail from time to time and get carried away, but what sets the difference is that some people can quickly go back on track, that separates the good user from the really bad user who is ALL about flaming, disturbing, attacking, like this place had before, and those users have not been active....it is THAT category of users that don't give a good image to a community, not the occasional side tracking, cussing, fooling around....... I think one should be able to make a distinction.
To me ANY topic would be accepted, anything goes, in their respective forums, but crossing the line into personal territory (threats against others, attacking their person, their family, character, spreading lies, etc.I would not tolerate that !) there is a difference between disagreeing with someone and attacking their person and being downright mean to everyone. I guess different people have different opinions on how a community should be like........

It doesn't fucking matter if a site is run by a corporation or hobbyists,they are the same human beings behind the screens...it all comes down to common sense in the end. Wanting a friendly community, civil, professional, is that such a bad thing or is it perceived as anarchist, tyranny, etc.....So if ANYTHING goes then this means that the users attacked have a right to derail and defend themselves, it goes both ways.
), I just don't feel posts like this even belong on the forum 
